Dear My Future Husband:
I was up thinking last night, a lot of random thoughts, if I am capable of love. I know I’m not the only one who thinks about this. Let’s take a minute, how many times have we spoken with our close friends (male or female) about relationships> Are we truly capable of loving someone unconditionally, with all of their perfect imperfections?
For example, I don’t know if I am capable, let alone ready, to take on a relationship and love someone with certain baggage with family or insecurity. Hell, I have my own insecurities. Who doesn’t? As a woman, I deal with body image insecurities. Will I ever be enough for you? Will I be too much? Am I just someone you are settling for? Then again, I feel as if a real grown man would not have his spouse/partner feel these emotions yet always make her secure on her position I his life and the way she is viewed to him
But for women, how would I reassure you? How would you expect me to console your insecurity?
-Your Future Wife